I know this may sound morbid, but my Uncle died and he had the exact type of funeral I want. His funeral wasn’t the only thing I admired; he also lead a good life which has been a good example for me.
I don’t think my Uncle lived with many regrets. He worked very hard (he owned his own successful business) and played hard (hey, he had four kids!). It makes me think about my own life and doing things to live a bit everyday. Whether it be riding my bike, stopping to be in the moment with my kids, getting take-out instead of making dinner, having snuggle time with my husband after the kids are in bed, or calling my Mother, I try to remind myself to not wait until the kids are older, or I’m thinner, or we have more money to do things and live now.
After my Uncle’s Church service we all went to a restaurant with an open bar (again see above about play hard) and had a great meal. We watched a slide show/video set to my Uncle’s favorite music and then shared stories about him. It was great. There were lot’s of smiles and laughter, along with tears. But it was the funeral I want when it’s my time. And then after I’m cremated I want to be kept in my kids laundry room (next to my cremated dog) so I can be close to my family (no scattering for me).
What do you want after you’re gone?
