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Help! Is this a BOYS WILL BE BOYS situation?

Posted May 16, 2008 at 3:55PM by dustbunny
dishing the dirt, cleaning the chaos

 

A friend, who shall remain nameless, went OFF on two neighborhood kids because they smashed a handful of soda cans in the street at a blockparty.

One of the kids had to scrub the soda with a brush.

Minor details to note:

  • the soda tossing happened when it was dark (the kids didn't see the mess)
  • the angry mom went around moralizing it as if the turbulent little pukes were public enemy number one
  • the neighborhood kids tattled because they knew they would look like angelic little kiss ups
  • nobody said, hey, look guys, the street's sticky. do you think I want my street to look like that? Instead, the neighborhood watched the one boy out there with his brush.

I think it's cool for the kids to wash it up (like I don't feel bad about making a kid clean up his own mess) but to be made to feel like an ass over it? no way...thoughts?

 

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hsatkins Homepage

  hsatkins responded May 16, 2008 at 4:00PM

  Hoping to give Olivia a sibling in 2009! (or 10)

Wow - it seems like she was venting some other frustrations on the kid - I know we all overreact at times and maybe she realized after the fact that she blew it out of proportion - but I am sure that little boy was humiliated and will never forget it - it seems sad that he was made to feel so bad. I can see making them clean it up - all of them together - but not in front of a crowd and not in the heat of the moment . . .

dustbunny Homepage

  dustbunny responded May 16, 2008 at 4:06PM

  dishing the dirt, cleaning the chaos

I'm sensationalizing it- she never blew up at the kid BUT she blew up with the kid standing right there...she didn't know he was there...sorry!

Sullysmama Homepage

  Sullysmama responded May 16, 2008 at 4:41PM

  Will the next one be ginger too??

It's all in the approach. I'd be annoyed if my street looked like crap but I wouldn't go off on a kid or humiliate them for it. For instance, my next door neighbor got TP'd 2 weekends ago and half of it ended up in my yard. She was mortified and is still cleaning up the pieces in my yard this week. If they hadn't done anything, I'd have said, hey so, that TP? it's yours, and maybe you should help clean it up. The major thing is these people are YOUR NEIGHBORS! They don't just go away. They live there. And you have to live with how you treat them until you sell your house and move away or kick it and get taken out feet first. This woman is now going to have to deal with the fact that her neighbors think she's crazy.

Sticky_Mommy Homepage

  Sticky_Mommy responded May 21, 2008 at 10:43AM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

Call me crazy, but it's soda right?!
Is the soda bright blue?
Is your street pavement white?
How much worse can the street look with "soda" on it with all the other things that end up in the street such as oil, bird droppings, etc?
Over the top. Maybe the kids could do a can drive and send the $ to China to help with the Earthquake instead of spending their engery on street cleaning. Perspective people.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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