bestmommy responded October 5, 2007 at 6:00AM

  life is beautiful so live every moment

how nice would it be if all of us could have babies along with the sweet momments and without the painful ones but we shouldnt daydream.. so if your heart says go for the baby go for it..all pain will go away withits smile.. lol :)

  dhiya responded October 5, 2007 at 6:39AM

  

Honey,there is no gain without pain....Just analyse what is right for you and proceed accordingly...

  vtmomof2 responded October 5, 2007 at 7:07AM

  Life is crazy but wonderful.

This made me think of my aunt. She had three kids and when I asked about that, she said two was the hardest, three was a breeze. I guess it is like adding one more rock when you are already carrying 50 pounds, you just don't feel the difference.

  dustbunny responded October 5, 2007 at 7:51AM

  dishing the dirt, cleaning the chaos

I have three and it is crazy because each one is so unique...I can't imagine the family without baby N...he's 2 now and his personality is coming alive...it's cool (do it, do it, do it) kidding choose what's right for you...db :)

  Sticky_Mommy responded October 5, 2007 at 9:25AM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

vtmomof2 - very funny, but I'm sure very true! We took the aproach with less emotion and looked at what our life would be like when we talked about adding a 2nd, the pro's and con's and honestly what it would mean for us $wise too. That's a reality you have to think about.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!