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Say goodbye to my time off!

Posted July 11, 2007 at 11:50PM by kikarose

 

Last time I saw my doctor I fibbed a little. Just a little white lie. Nothing that would hurt anyone. I convinced her that the last time we discussed it she'd said that I could have my c-section August 6 instead of August 1. She balked a little and I convinced her that it would be fine; she'd do the section and her colleague would discharge me four days later as she was off to Texas to take her child to college. It was all good.

I was thrilled. August 6 would have taken me to 39 weeks 3 days, as close to term as she would possibly allow me to go. August 6 would have given M a full four weeks of physical therapy before having to be Mr. Single Dad for 4 days. August 6 would have given us another 4 weeks to find a name for this kiddo. And August 6 would have given me an entire week off. An entire week all to myself, where my only responsibility would have been to sit on my patootie and rest. (I mean seriously, when was the last time you had an entire week to yourself? No kids? No work? My point exactly.)

Did you notice the past tense in the last paragraph? That's right. August 6 would have been perfect. But it wasn't meant to be.

Read the rest here: http://roseslife.blogspot.com/2007/07/say-bye-bye-to-my-time-off.html

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vtmomof2 Homepage

  vtmomof2 responded July 12, 2007 at 8:58AM

  Life is crazy but wonderful.

July 31st isn't so bad. I kept wanting to have my labor induced earlier, they made me wait. But I know when you want it a certain way and the doctors just take over at the end it is frustrating.

Sticky_Mommy Homepage

  Sticky_Mommy responded July 12, 2007 at 9:00AM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

My DS had kidney issue while I was pregnant and my OBGYN wanted to induce me, I fought it and asked lots of questions to my high risk Drs and the child kidney specialist and convinced my OBGYN to induce me on my due date (6/6/06) if the kid didn’t come before then. I stuck to my guns and he arrived on 6/4.

vtmomof2 Homepage

  vtmomof2 responded July 12, 2007 at 9:58AM

  Life is crazy but wonderful.

My son was different, I was in labor for 2 weeks and he was stuck. I also had 60 lbs of fluid in me and was close to having pre ecamplsia (sp?) so I was begging to be induced. My little guy finally came after 2 hrs of pushing and a c-section weighing 10 lbs 5 ozs, he was completely stuck and it was me saying that I had to have a c-section for them to do it and after the doctor said that he was so big and stuck he wouldn't have came out any other way.

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  cosmoblue responded July 12, 2007 at 3:17PM

  

Bummer. I missed out on my time off too. I had just finalize my mat leave to take of two weeks before my due date the day before DD was born. She was 6 weeks early.

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  LatteMommy responded July 18, 2007 at 6:15PM

  LatteMommy

Ya'll will probably want to slap me, but I had 3 weeks off before DD came. I was only to have 1 1/2 till my due date, but the Dr. didn't want to induce till I was 1 1/2 wk's late. (high risk pregnancy junk) My Boss was "Thrilled" somewhat that I took that time off cause man the hormones were in high gear and I was BAD/miserable. My Boss (Pastor) had sympathy for DH though. LOL.
I had to be induced, but after giving me the Cervidil (which they told me rarely send one into labor) I went into full blown labor 1 hr. later and also after taking a sleep aid to help me rest before "it" hit the fan. Whelp 13 hrs of hard labor later with NO pain meds (which they told me in labor class would be in full supply, but I guess at 1am the Hospital shuts the heck down) the frigin Dr. finally show's up 1 PM and says "Yeah you can give her the epidermal if she wants it, you could have given it to her earlier". Oooouuuu I could still hurt that guy to this day. They said they called and paged him and he NEVER answer and when he did they told me that he said he was on his way to the hospital now. (I heard this from 2am until 1 PM)
YUP STILL MAD AFTER 3 1/2 YRS.
Long horrifying story short, DD went into distress and we lost her heartbeat and boom I was in for an emergency C-section (WITH the Doctor I really wanted in the first place) and DD was out in 15 minutes. She looked scaly, like she had been in the cooker too long. Like a Sunburn baby in a peeling zone. Kinda a yellowish hugh too. But God she was and is beautiful and I'm so proud and happy we had her even through all that nightmarish stuff, it all turned out GOOD!
We vow never to do that again, God willing. We are thankful for our ONE blessing!

God speed to you and best wishes and luck for a happy healthy birth.

LatteMommy Homepage

  LatteMommy responded July 18, 2007 at 6:18PM

  LatteMommy

Ya'll will probably want to slap me, but I had 3 weeks off before DD came. I was only to have 1 1/2 till my due date, but the Dr. didn't want to induce till I was 1 1/2 wk's late. (high risk pregnancy junk) My Boss was "Thrilled" somewhat that I took that time off cause man the hormones were in high gear and I was BAD/miserable. My Boss (Pastor) had sympathy for DH though. LOL.
I had to be induced, but after giving me the Cervidil (which they told me rarely send one into labor) I went into full blown labor 1 hr. later and also after taking a sleep aid to help me rest before "it" hit the fan. Whelp 13 hrs of hard labor later with NO pain meds (which they told me in labor class would be in full supply, but I guess at 1am the Hospital shuts the heck down) the frigin Dr. finally show's up 1 PM and says "Yeah you can give her the epidermal if she wants it, you could have given it to her earlier". Oooouuuu I could still hurt that guy to this day. They said they called and paged him and he NEVER answer and when he did they told me that he said he was on his way to the hospital now. (I heard this from 2am until 1 PM)
YUP STILL MAD AFTER 3 1/2 YRS.
Long horrifying story short, DD went into distress and we lost her heartbeat and boom I was in for an emergency C-section (WITH the Doctor I really wanted in the first place) and DD was out in 15 minutes. She looked scaly, like she had been in the cooker too long. Like a Sunburn baby in a peeling zone. Kinda a yellowish hugh too. But God she was and is beautiful and I'm so proud and happy we had her even through all that nightmarish stuff, it all turned out GOOD!
We vow never to do that again, God willing. We are thankful for our ONE blessing!

God speed to you and best wishes and luck for a happy healthy birth.

 

 

 

 

 

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