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Taking care of YOU

Posted May 16, 2007 at 9:13PM by kypod

 

My next door neighbor has 4 amazing girls and her husband travels a lot for work.  The other night when my son and I were coming back from our walk I started chatting with our neighbor in the driveway.  My husband has been working a lot these days and that means that I have been flying solo during dinner/bath/reading/bedtime.  I asked her how she did it - her husband was sometimes away for months at a time and she replied, "Make sure that you do things to take care of YOU.  Whether that means exercise, gardening, whatever."  She explained that she was gardening and hadn't cleaned her house or made dinner but that she needed to get this done before it was dark - and this was her way of taking care of herself so that she could take care of everyone else.  This has been my inspiration for the week. I am walking every night and I took Friday off from work.  I will send my son to daycare and I will do things like go shopping, or take a nap, or whatever!  It is going to be rainy and crummy out, but I don't care.  I am doing this to take care of ME and that is going to make me stronger and more able to take care of them!  Also, for mothers day I asked my husband for a housecleaner to come to my house to clean.  I didn't want anything, just some help with dusting and washing windows!  And that is happening this weekend. 

What things do you do to make sure that you are taking care of yourself so that you can take care of everyone else?

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birdiehandmade Homepage

  birdiehandmade responded May 16, 2007 at 10:54PM

  

I second that. If we don't speak up and take a little time for ourselves, we run the risk of burn out and bitterness. WE all have to make our situations work however that may be, but we MUST remember to figure ourselves into the equation!

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  rockergirrl responded May 17, 2007 at 7:19AM

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I totally agree. It is so easy to get burned out and expect your partner to know when you need a break. We have to be vocal and honest about what our needs are. My DH has to force me to take some time for myself. I am trying to get better at it but it is hard to do sometimes without the guilt.

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  vtmomof2 responded May 17, 2007 at 8:47AM

  Life is crazy but wonderful.

I agree with rockergirl, the few times my husband takes the kids for the day so I can have time doing what I want I feel guilty. But I am always happier when everybody comes home and ready to be mom and wife again.

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  Sticky_Mommy responded May 17, 2007 at 8:35PM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

Great words of wisdom from your neighbor. It's easier said then done. I think it's great that you're getting it done. I'm calling Grandpa right now to see if he's into some babysiting this weekend.

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  Sticky_Mommy responded May 22, 2007 at 3:03PM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

We didn't get a babysitter, but I hope you had a great Friday!

 

 

 

 

 

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