Sticky_Mommy responded May 15, 2007 at 4:51PM

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And the perfect flower for remembering. XO

  dhiya responded July 25, 2007 at 10:10AM

  

There is always something good waiting...Stay positive...God is with all of us..

  LatteMommy responded July 25, 2007 at 11:55AM

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Just remember she is YOUR Angel now watching over you and when you feel down she WILL embrace you. What a wonderful way to celebrate "Little". A beautiful way to to charish the love you lost. Chin up, smile and God Bless You and Your Family.

  Sullysmama responded August 8, 2007 at 12:51AM

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I have a friend (not terribly close, but my husband worked for her husband for 6 years, and they're still in touch) who just lost her baby at 35 weeks. They named her Alice, and I would really like to do something to honor her. Do you have any advise as to what made you feel good, and what was too much? It's just such a heartbreaking and unsure time for them right now. Any words from someone who's been there would be appreciated!

  rockergirrl responded August 8, 2007 at 1:10PM

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at this point since it just happened I would just be as supportive as you can. The biggest thing for me was that no one really acknowledged my loss as losing a baby since mine was early. It seems much more tragic when a child dies after it has been born. To me it is my baby growing inside of me regardless of what stage it is in. I just remember really appreciating the people who seemed to get that. The ones who pissed me off where the ones who always just said "it was probably for the best." I say for now just be there and be supportive. It is hard for both sides.

  Newbee responded August 9, 2007 at 9:57AM

  

When my husband and I were going through IVF we had both had surgeries to collect his sperm and my eggs. The doctors were able to create 7 embryos. Within 4 days they had all died. The doctors had no reason for it. We felt an incredible loss at that point. In our minds 7 little babies had died. I still get choked up today. It doesn't matter when it happens it still hurts, it is still a life and it is already a part of you. It is unfortunate that people can be so insensitive. I am really sorry for your loss.

  Sticky_Mommy responded August 9, 2007 at 5:23PM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

Sullysmama - when our good friends lost their baby we lived across the country and send flowers and checked in with them by phone. And when my cousin lost their baby early on we also sent flowers. On both acounts we were the only ones to acknowledge their loss.

Just acknowledging that they are going through a hard time can be just the right help and support.

  kristasofie responded October 28, 2007 at 10:20PM

  

Sorry for your loss. You'll never forget your "Little" girl. What a beautiful momento and idea.