Well, I never meant to stay home with DD. I love it but is was not my plan. I was laid off from my job months ago. I do a little freelance now and then, but not often. I was totally unprepared for this new career. I don't clean, I don't cook, I don't make friends easily, and as a FTM I am just learning how to care for my daughter as I go. Thank goodness for the Flylady. My house is much less of a mess than it used top be thanks to her system.