WILMom responded March 25, 2008 at 3:54PM

  East Coast Mommy of Two????

The good news is, you do know you can conceive and carry a baby to term, the bad news is-who knows when it will happen again. And unfortunately most drs will make you wait awhile before trying to help. This also happened to a friend of mine and my m-i-l and both were successful eventually. Just try to stay positive and relaxed about the situation, it will happen when your body is ready. Good luck, keep us posted :)

  hsatkins responded March 25, 2008 at 3:58PM

  Hoping to give Olivia a sibling in 2009! (or 10)

It took us 5 years and 5 pregnancies before we had our DD so I was hoping that my body had 'learned' what to do and that baby #2 would not be such a long and emotional road - but with the one loss and one ectopic which resulted in one tube removed and almost dying - both in 2007 - I am feeling a little bit discouraged. I have already seen the doc and they ran all of the preliminary tests and everything was fine - but just as before I have no answers and still so many troubles - UGH - anyway - I try to stay positive despite it all and I just thank God everyday for Olivia - but it is still hard . . .

  benbaby responded March 26, 2008 at 3:04AM

  Goofing around with my babies - Big and Lil

Well,the tip is keep yourself healthy and relaxed and it will happen soon. Good Look and keep us posted :)

  dustbunny responded March 26, 2008 at 4:03PM

  dishing the dirt, cleaning the chaos

best wishes, that's a lot of work and heartache, I'm sorry.. my friend went through that as well...but eventually baby 2 & 3 happened...one of them arriving at age 40 no less...SURPRISE :)...may this happen to you

  hsatkins responded March 26, 2008 at 4:09PM

  Hoping to give Olivia a sibling in 2009! (or 10)

Thank you :) I know miracles happen - I am looking at one right now (my 2 year old daughter). I know people mean well - but so many people really do not understand and tell me to just drink a glass of wine - it really drives me NUTS - obviously with 7 miscarriages my problem is not one that can be fixed with wine - although I know it cannot hurt - LOL - but it is hard when friends/family say that - but I guess it is just hard to know what to say so they do their best :)
I am about to call for more test results - I hope I get good news!!!
Thank you all for your support! I really am finding it hard to find people who are willing to talk about fertility issues since it is so personal . . .