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Were the first two weeks hard or what?

Posted April 29, 2008 at 10:57AM in Ages and Stages by newby123 | Back 

 

this is my little angel Rhett. He was born 2/13/08. My Husband and I waited 3 years (fertility issues) for his arrival. I would hear people complain about how tough it was to have a baby and I would scoff and think, "how dare  you complain at least you are blessed with a child." Well, when we brought our little miracle home did I ever learn what they were talking about. I was so sure it would be easier for me because I wanted it so badly. I was wrong. Between the lack of sleep, lack of experience and the hormones it wasn't long before I was an emotional wreck. I even said to my Husband at one point, "wow to I suck at this. This poor baby!" Luckily, it got easier as I got to know my Son, worked out the lactation issues I was having and my hormones evened out. I have a lot more confidence in my abilites as a parent and have found that I am not alone in the first few weeks struggle. Now I have a new set of issues which include managing a job, a family and my household. I am loving being a parent though and I already know that I would do it all again!

 

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rockergirrl Homepage

  rockergirrl responded April 29, 2008 at 11:01AM

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what a cutie. Congrats on the baby and the coming out of the fog phase. It is SO much harder than we think. It always helped me to remember that I was not alone - everyone goes through it and comes out the other side. The biggest thing to remember is how quickly it goes away. Mine are now 6 and 3. Although I don't miss the sleepless nights there are certainly parts of those early days I miss.

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  dustbunny responded April 29, 2008 at 11:09AM

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yes..the first two weeks are like this hazy blur...then the next three months are a sleepless fog and then, each month as you get more and more back to normal, it's like, wow, I was a mess. but the magic in the first two weeks can't be rivaled by anything else in the world, you know? congrats!

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  benbaby responded April 29, 2008 at 11:26AM

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Hey,Congrats new mom ! Its more like everything looks happier on the other side of the stream. This is a stage that I miss, now that my toddler is 15 months old. Babies are so cute and innocent and they look sweeter in their earlier stages. No doubt the first few weeks is tough for a new mom but don't worry you will figure it out. I've had mine after 5 years and I thought the same way as you did:)

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  RainbowDash responded April 30, 2008 at 9:02AM

  They're cute when they're alseep!

For me, it was the first 7 weeks. Once that hump was over it felt so much better.

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  vtmomof2 responded April 30, 2008 at 11:03AM

  Life is crazy but wonderful.

Congrats on your baby, he is absolutely adorable! The first couple of weeks are hard. Unfortunately I had surgery and missed the first two weeks of my son because I was recovering and my hubby took over the first two weeks essentially as a single dad. Enjoy every moment they pass so fast, my baby is starting kindergarten this fall, and my daughter is going into fifth grade, it goes by really fast.

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  Celia2611 responded May 20, 2008 at 8:54PM

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I am still in my 7 weeks of becoming a single new mom, and lord knows how hard we work at it, but i am so proud of my little angle, I look at her and I savor every moment, every cry, every bath moment. She is cooing and smiling and that, only that makes it all worth it. congrats and blessings on your new little one.

 

 

 

 

 

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