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Hit with my own bed time issue

Posted June 6, 2008 at 9:55AM in Ages and Stages by rockergirrl | Back 

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So of course since I gave out so much sleep advice the past few days I got hit with my own sleep issue last night.  My 3 year old has been getting up out of bed about 30 minutes after going down saying he can't sleep.  Usually we just need to take him back up one time and he falls asleep and is fine all night.  Last night however he got up several times and finally at 9:30 he was just sitting on the stairs sighing so I decided to go to bed early and let him sleep with me.  I had been wanting to go to bed early this week and I love snuggling with him so we decided I would head up with him and then my husband would move him back to his bed once he came up.

Why has he been waking up more this week?  I don't know but I don't stress about it anymore.  He is a kid.  They just do these things.  We can either make ourselves crazy and stressed trying to figure out why and let it ruin our days (or nights or both) or decide to suck it up and realize this is all a part of parenting.  Roll with it, cuddle up with them in bed and remember this too will pass (until the next phase hits).


 

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Sticky_Mommy Homepage

  Sticky_Mommy responded June 6, 2008 at 10:02AM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

We must be on the same thought pattern, I brought my 4 year old into bed with me last night!

She was still awake last night at 9:30 reading in her closet (so she wouldn't wake up her brother). I told her she could go back to her bed or come sleep with me in my bed (hoping she'd pick me) so I got a nice snuggle last night before my DH took her back to her room.

But she was up at 6:20 - uggh!

DianaR Homepage

  DianaR responded June 8, 2008 at 12:11AM

  

If your little one is still taking a nap during the day, you probably should eliminate it so that he is tired for bed.

While his sleep needs are being adjusted, he needs to stay in his own bed, even if he cannot sleep. He can have quite things to do, but the general rule should be that once he is in bed, he stays there.

I know it has helped to have that rule with my sons and my grand kids.

rockergirrl Homepage

  rockergirrl responded June 8, 2008 at 5:04PM

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oh yes that is the same advice I always give out too. Although in this case my son is not ready to give up his one nap yet. The phase of getting up has already passed us. The weather had changed and it has been very hot. I think that had something to do with it.

matty39 Homepage

  matty39 responded June 16, 2008 at 11:28AM

  

We're kind of the same. We have a twin mattress on the floor in our room and if any of the younger ones wander into our room during the night, they usually go there. My almost 3 yr. old still crawls in with us most nights. We do what gets all of us the most sleep and find that for the most part, they just want to be near us. It won't last and it probably won't be long when my husband and I aren't "cool" anymore. lol. I'll take the attention while it lasts.lol.

 

 

 

 

 

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