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Best birth to HORRIBLE birth....

Posted June 11, 2008 at 7:49PM in Birth Stories by likeomgsara | Back 

 

I had it easy with my first child, 14 & 1/2 hours of labor with an epidural.  And 1/2 hour before he was born the epidural wore off and my labor progressed so fast that it was time to push so no more medicine was given... 6 minutes and 3pushes later he was born!  Vaginal birth was great, expecially when it was natural.  I was hoping to have the same luck with this past pregnancy.  I went for almost 17hours of straight no medicine/ pitocin drip pain of labor and couldn't progress past 5cm.  I tried walking, swaying, bouncing a bit on a ball.  But he wouldn't decend into my pelvis.  So my doctor got the bright idea of breaking my water to see if that would help.  The only thing it did was intensify my contractions.  But before we get into the c-section bit.  If the doctor says Foley catheter, beware!  They balloon a water balloon the size of a fist behind your cervix to open it up.  And thats how I got to 5cm.  And the pain of it coming out, oh my gosh.  OUCH!  But after I couldn't pass 5cm they stopped the induction and rushed me into an emergency c-section.  I really felt inadequate because I wanted to be able to hold my baby.  Thankfully my husband was allowed, but I felt lonely because I wasn't allowed.  I had been up all night and day, and I wanted rest.  So they came in a little after I finally got to sleep and asked me if I wanted to feed him.  And what mother wouldn't? I held him until I couldn't stand being awake anymore; so I gave him back to the nursery.  I stayed in the room where they had originally put me, not changing over to the wing where the mothers had already had their babies at.  I had to finally go to the bathroom, and still having the urine catheter in; I'm sure you know what I had to do.  Finally I got so tensed up because I had to go really badly, I got out of bed and went myself.  It took them 20minutes to get to me finally after I had gone to the bathroom.  And they wonder why I was so mad at the staff there.  That night they put me in the other wing, thank god.  And things ran a bit more smoothly.  They had me up and walking more the next day which I pushed myself to do.  But having a c-section at that hospital again is a no-go for me.  I have chosen to go to another hospital close by!

 

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wildmom Homepage

  wildmom responded June 12, 2008 at 8:13AM

  if mom ain't happy, ain't nobody happy

OUCH! the things we go through. that sounds like a nightmare. I hope the next time things are smoother for you!

matty39 Homepage

  matty39 responded June 14, 2008 at 9:14AM

  

Oh gosh! What an ordeal and I'm sorry that the birth of your second child was such an awful experience for you. Hopefully the next time will be much better.

rohansmama Homepage

  rohansmama responded June 17, 2008 at 12:48AM

  

OMG! what all we have to go through at times? hope things will workout better for you..next time.

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  dylanleeedwards responded July 23, 2008 at 7:08PM

  im 15 and a mom. thats it!

oh im sorry bout ur trouble you had. when i had dylan i was only in labor for 2 and 1/2 hours. everyone says thats unreal but after hearing bout ur expeirences i guess they all were right..haha.

EugenS Homepage

  EugenS responded September 15, 2008 at 2:16PM

  

I'm sorry to hear that happened, I hope my wife will be spared. We're all hoping for a peaceful birth.

 

 

 

 

 

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