It's a loaded question...but I'm asking it. I know everyone is supposed to be happy once they are married. I'm just thinking about Sx & the City here...Charlotte (in her sticky sweet life) said every waking minute of her life she's happy.

Well, to be honest, that's fiction now isn't it! There are ups and downs and people get pissed but I tell you it's sometimes hard to spot "happy" in the mirage of emotions that come with being married to another person (and on top of that, in charge of who knows how many others...little, tiny or full grown!).

So, am I happy? I'd say yes and no. Happy is contextual and I'm so ADD that I'm happy in one situation and 5 seconds later, miserable in the next. Oh well, that's the way of the beast. That's why we have a little thing called happy hour....