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Lord Have Mercy! Mommy guilt

Posted June 25, 2008 at 12:44AM in Family Living General by rohansmama | Back 

 

Today I was overloaded with work at home and I expected my 17 month old son to co-operate... I had to do cooking, washing clothes, cleaning bathrooms, dirty dishes.  All piled up for two days. Then the biggest task for the day was to deal with the baby and  related works. We had started his potty training this week and I was rushing him to the bathroom each time to avoid accidents, inbetween my work. At some point I got too busy with my work and forgot about the baby in the birthday suit. By which time my little one had managed to make a big mess on the new furniture. I lost my temper like I had never before and spanked my little one.  He is a tough kid. He cried for a little while and then still came and gave me a hug and kiss. I've been feeling so miserable since the time I hurt him. He is actually such a cutie pie but, a moment of anger and frustration caused all this to happen. I feel like I'm a bad mommy. I pray God Have Mercy on me for doing this to my innocent little angel.

Have you gone through any such situations? If yes how did you overcme your guilt?

 

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  dustbunny responded June 25, 2008 at 2:26PM

  dishing the dirt, cleaning the chaos

don't feel bad...moms are good at holding it together. other times, we don't even realize how worked up we are. breath it off...no guilt needed. there are plenty of people walking around feeling like crap for snapping at their kids. just remember how you feel now so next time, you'll be like- "i didn't feel better when I did that." let it go and you're fine. baby will forgive you too. :)

just remember to breath and walk away rather than take that swat...you'll feel 100x better

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  rockergirrl responded June 28, 2008 at 5:56PM

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Let go of the guilt but remember how bad you felt next time you get the urge. I child should never have to take the brunt (physically) of our anger and stress. Next time walk into another room, shut the door and do some deep breathing. You made a mistake and you realize it so just learn from it and it will help you if you ever find yourself in that position again.

 

 

 

 

 

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