There are a few proven ways to stop the crap from piling up. Here are a few from Colleen Langenfeld, a superior clutter killer @
http://www.paintedgold.com/Organize/conquer-clutter.html. I like the idea of everyone conquering their own shtuff!
KILL CLUTTER NOW!
1. NO PILES
Okay, you probably can't actually stop the piles of clutter
coming in everyday, but you can stop them from piling up. If
your home is like a lot of homes, you have piles of mail, piles
of school papers, and piles of newspapers and magazines coming
into your house on a daily basis. These can pile up FAST and
overwhelm a room within a matter of days.
The solution? One suggestion is to designate a place for these
incoming piles and assign yourself (or a family member) fifteen
minutes a day to go through these piles and deal with them
appropriately. Fifteen minutes a day doesn't sound like much but
if you don't do this everyday, that's one and a quarter hours
per week, Monday through Friday. And that's only one clutter
pile.
2. Deal with the clothes.
If you have difficulty keeping your laundry off the floor and
into your closets, as well as clean and ready to go each
morning, then it will probably help you to deal with this
clutter pile each day, as well. I suggest setting a timer each
evening after dinner for fifteen minutes (this is a great chunk
of time to use) during which each family member collects their
clothing from around the house and puts it away. One load of
wash is started. When the laundry is done, everyone goes through
the load, picks out their own clothing and puts it away.
Again, daily is the key or by the weekend, you have a mountain
of laundry and no helpers in sight.
3. Conquer clutter in the kitchen.
The key to a clean kitchen is the morning. Take your magical
fifteen minutes as you start your day (you can rotate this
through family members, if you desire) and empty out the
dishwasher and sink. Then there is only one rule for eating for
the rest of the day. When you're done, put your dirty dishes in
the dishwasher and wipe the counter where you ate. Just one
rule, not 52. Keep it simple. Got someone who can't handle one
rule? Then they do everyone's dishes until they get the point.
4. Everyone handles their own stuff.
In many homes one person, usually an adult, cleans up after
everyone. No wonder household management feels overwhelming!
Conquer clutter in a reasonable way. The old adage "if you get
it out, you put it away" applies here. Then enforce this one
simple rule with consequences that have meaning. Again, about
fifteen minutes is all it takes once a day to keep everyone's
stuff put away. Put on some music, start the timer, and announce
no dinner until the clutter is conquered.
Believe me, they'll learn to put everything away fast. Really
fast.
As you can see, to conquer clutter in your home doesn't require
a major makeover, just a few daily disciplines and the
expectation that everyone do his or her part. Pick one area and
start that discipline today. Give yourself and your team thirty
days to make the change. Then celebrate together! And start on
the next discipline.
Pretty soon your cluttered house will be a thing of the past.
And won't that feel great?
Colleen Langenfeld has been parenting for
over 26 years and helps other moms enjoy mothering more at
http://www.paintedg old.com. Visit her website and get more tips
on how to conquer clutter at
http://www.paintedgold.com/Organize/conquer-clutter.html.