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"I don't want to talk about it"

Posted January 26, 2009 at 9:45AM in Loss and Grief by TheLilWee | Back 

By the Grace of God I am what I am.

 

Over the weekend I was rushed to the hospital.....too much bleeding......18 hours later, after many exams and altrasounds,..."Ashley, We're sorry to tell you this, but you had a miscarraige" I was in a lot of pain, both physically, and mentally. I didnt know what to do. Where do we go from here?


My husband didn't say much. And it didnt actually hit me untill a day later. But when it hit me, it was like walking into a concrete wall. It hit me when my mom called me, from ohio, and said that her and dad wanted me to come home of the weekend. I didnt realize that this was really happening until that point. So my parents bought me tickets, and im flying to ohio this weekend. The hardest part about all of that is leaving my husband. I have never been away from him over night, let alone a whole weekend. Well he's working the whole weekend anyway, otherwise he would be coming with me.


O well, I guess i'll get through it, just like I HAVE to get through everthing else.

 

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rockergirrl Homepage

  rockergirrl responded January 26, 2009 at 11:34AM

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I'm so sorry. I had a miscarriage as well. everyone deals with them differently . It was a big blow for me. My husband and I weren't married at the time but this was going to be our first child and it hit us both very hard. 9 years and two kids later I still think about it almost every day. She would have been 9 this spring. good luck in your healing and make sure to include you husband. It is harder for the guys sometimes because they couldn't see or feel the baby yet.

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  Sullysmama responded January 26, 2009 at 11:56AM

  Gettin' used to this "mom of two" stuff.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm hopeful that your family can provide some much needed support for you and your husband right now. My thoughts are with you.

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  dustbunny responded January 27, 2009 at 10:28AM

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. do you have any other close friends you can visit during this time? try to relax and take care of yourself. I'm glad your family will be able to support you through this. take care.

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  Sticky_Mommy responded February 19, 2009 at 10:49AM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a loss and you need time to grieve. Keep reaching out to your friends, family and esp to your husband. You can do it. ((hugs))

 

 

 

 

 

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